I had a look at micom with my scope this afternoon
I'm afraid exlink will not work...

if I'm not wrong,
there is no uart between Soc And Micom, rather I2C or SPI, I don't know yet.
There is no frame on RX/TX while pressing a key on the remote. I guess these lines are only used for micom firmware programming (as described in datasheet).
We already know that the front panel infos are sent by the Soc to the front panel (through micom) with I2C. I guess that when a key is pressed, it's code is also read by I2C (why would they implement 2 dialog lines ?).
I have measured the level of all pins and taken a snapshot of live signals.
In brief :
P25 : I2C Clock
P24 : I2C Data (talking all the time)
P22 : permanent square signal at 1.35kHz
P21 : constant bursts of data ? (talking all the time)
P20 : Data (talking all the time)
P120 : demodulated IR signal (when a key is pressed)
P121 : look like spikes (all the time)
We still have 12 candidates for the partition toggle pin
Here are the levels (arrow in blue for outputs, level 0 or 1 in blue, green sine means 'live signal') :
micom.jpg
And here are the snapshots :
scope.jpg
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